Malaysian : Keep it like a secret

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What is social behavior? Social behavior is action or behavior directed towards society, or taking place between, members of the same species. Social behavior is like a cancer. It grows unstoppable and hard to cure. From Seattle to Irian Jaya, social behaviors are there.

Malaysia is a diversity place for; foods, people, ideas and social behaviors. From the social side, divide it in few categories, physical and emotionally. Physical is involving movement and interaction while emotionally is interaction that happen inner self.

Writing an article on social behavior from Malaysia view means writing an article that consist myself and people in my circle as the subject of studies. Personal opinion toward Malaysia’s social behavior and the issue that will write down here is Isolation, or to elaborate more; Malaysian is hard to express their feelings or thought towards something or someone and keep it like a secret.

We have this ideas of we are not good compare with other. We have this ideas what we got to do is not tough that other. Deep inside we have the ideas of being Malaysian or being yourself is not good as being citizen other countries. We have ideas our language is not good compare other. We have this ideas that our culture are too ‘kampong’ compare to other. We have this ideas what we do for life is not cool compare what other do. We have ideas of what other do is good and what we do are worse than bad. We have the idea and keep it, store it because to us, it just an idea not got to work out. Shame

Malaysians are not able to express their thought directly & openly; we keep it ourselves. What we being speech or fight for, there will no action taken. Hang out at some spot and we drink and discuss about some issues and we vomit our mind about changing the world, put some effort by writing down on paper, the plan, the members and after few hours later we back to our places. Everything is back to normal daily life routine.

Sometimes rough time happens, normal and that is reality. It bites and leaves the marks. We can express or get it out by meeting and tell it to someone we trust; friends or doing it professionally by set up some counseling session. The problems are we can’t do that, we are too shy to open up our problems to another person. It is norm thing in different countries meeting professional to share the problems but in here. Being raise in good manner and being polite from the young age have make us to not too outspoken and voice out whatever we have against or disagree on.

Affection of this behavior, we have creating our own space. Space with no one else involved. Isolate from people because we scared or don’t want to part with other. Here, in this space, the only us and our self.

Is there any of this social behavior connected with my FYP project?

Yes! Television is my major idea on my final project. It’s related with idea of television is 'It's your school, your home, your mosque, your friend... and your lover'. I would to show how TV being influences us either good or bad way. Isolation is main aspect, when u put yourself in place where no other human beings what you need now is alternative friend to accompany you. What is the best? Here comes television. The closer and most ‘reliable friend’;always there when u need always dull when u speak. We being in love with the ideas of happiness we seen on television, we learn about other side of globe just by sitting in lazy chair and with travel to another country from tip of your finger.

Talk no more! Again this research is about Malaysian, and I am Malaysian. Errrr.